Today, I want to talk to you about the need for communication. We all experience frustration when we aren’t understood, which can lead to disillusionment, especially for those who are weak. Let’s learn how to communicate effectively to express our thoughts and feelings without fear of being misunderstood.
Let’s start with Psalm 133:1: “Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity.” Unity requires proper communication. Turn with me to Genesis 11:1-9, where we learn the importance of communication. In verse 1, the whole earth had one language and one speech, which enabled people to work together in unity. But in verses 7-8, God confused their language, and they could no longer understand each other, leading to the scattering of people. This shows how crucial communication is for unity and effective work.
As Christians, we need to communicate well to maintain unity. In Numbers 32, Moses misunderstood the tribes of Reuben and Gad, which almost caused conflict. Proper communication clarified their intentions. In 2 Samuel 10, King Hanun of Ammon misunderstood David’s intentions, leading to unnecessary war and loss. Miscommunication can have serious consequences.
Proverbs 15:1-7 offers valuable advice for better communication. A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs anger. We must stay calm and gentle when we communicate, speak wisely and truthfully, and use our words to help, not hurt. Listening and remaining teachable are essential. Solomon’s wisdom teaches us to communicate in ways that foster understanding and unity.
In Acts 6:1-7, we see an example of effective communication. When the early church faced a complaint about distributing food to widows, the apostles addressed the issue by appointing seven men to ensure fairness. Their clear and thoughtful communication resolved the conflict and strengthened the community.
James 1:19 advises us to be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to wrath. Good communication involves listening more than speaking. Everyone can have a say, but not everyone will always have their way. We must avoid being defensive and speak in love, as 2 Samuel 12:1-15 and John 16:12-13 remind us.
Effective communication encourages unity and belief in the gospel of Jesus Christ. As Christians, we must be precise with our words and meanings, especially when talking to people who may not share our backgrounds or experiences. Good communication skills are vital for spreading the gospel and maintaining unity within the church.
So, where do you stand today? Are you committed to improving your communication to foster unity and understanding?
